Wednesday, 10 December 2014

Friends...

Sorry for being inactive on my blog. I should be happy that I am able to blog again, but I'm not. We're not. Because... Because... We're troubled about a problem... A friendship problem between my best friends... Or 2 of them to be concise.


Him and Her. Friends for at least 3 years.

To make things simple, I shall briefly describe the situation. Him thinks that Her has betrayed him and adored the people that Him hates and thinks that Her is trying to get me and Him out so that Her can be together with a third party (I shall mention no names). With that, Him is pissed off and wants to end this friendship again. And by again, I mean that such an incident has happened before. Although Her thinks that what Him did is wrong, she still truly wants to reconcile and carry on the friendship with Him. So, Her wants us to make a choice. Either choose to be friends with Him and ditch Her as a best friend, or continue being friends with Her and ditch Him. Sigh... Who should I choose? Him or Her? I don't want to end the friendship with neither of them as I can't bear to do so, and I couldn't sit on the fence and choose both, so? What should I do?

This is Hamanda here, sending an SOS signal to anyone who's reading this... What should I do?



The last time it happened, Her cried to me on the phone for 42 minutes, but Him thinks that the tears were fake. Her is really desperate to fix the friendship and break down the invisible wall between them as she thinks that it is all Her fault and without her, it wouldn't have ended up like this.


I thought you all were getting along as friends pretty well, Him and Her, why the sudden change? Why can't things go back to normal? I don't want to lose either of you. There I said it. I don't want to lose either  of you. 😣😣😣